What should you know?

Ever wonder what's going on around the USA with other teens just like yourself? Now's your chance to get educated and pass valuable information on to your peers. Let's talk about it! Get the answers you're looking for today.

Did you know that over 90% of teens believe that it's important that they get a strong message about waiting to have sex? In fact, 60% of teens who have had sex wish they had waited longer and 75% don't see anything embarrassing about admitting that they're virgins. Clearly, teens in the 21st century are recognizing merit in putting off sex and the consequences – both physical and emotional – that are attached to sex.

Stuff to Think About

Click on any of the links below to find out more about each one.

Pregnancy
  • 3 out of 10 girls become pregnant by age 20.
  • Each year almost 750,000 teenage girls between the ages of 15 to 19 become pregnant.
  • NC was ranked 9th in the United States for teenage pregnancy in 2004.
  • In 2006, a total of 435,427 infants were born to mothers aged 15–19.
  • More than 80% of the infants born to teenaged mothers were unintended, meaning they occurred sooner than desired or were not wanted at any time.
Are You Ready to be a Parent?
Being a parent changes everything. You have another living, breathing person to worry about who depends upon you. You have to feed, change, dress and take care of this baby 24/7. Add in school, maybe a job, and you have no time for the things you want to do or used to do. Babies cost a lot of money. You’ll have to provide food, housing, clothing, diapers, doctor visits, medicine, baby furniture and daycare. The baby of a teenager is more likely to have health problems. If the other parent is raising your child, you could pay a child support payment every month for 18 years.
What About Birth Control?
No birth control method is 100% effective. The only sure way is abstinence. Abstinence is the only absolutely, positively, never-ever fail method of preventing pregnancy. The only 100% effective birth control is abstinence.
Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)

Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), also known as sexually-transmitted infections (STIs), are commonly transmitted between partners through some form of sexual activity. STDs are a major problem for sexually active teens. One out of four sexually active young people have an STD.

Some STDs are curable and there are some that are not. You can become infected if you have sex with someone who has an STD. You cannot tell if a person has an STD by looking at them. They may look healthy with no outward signs. They may not even know they are infected. There are others that will not tell you they have an STD, even if they know. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, more than 25 known diseases are spread primarily through sexual activity.

If left undiagnosed and untreated, STDs can cause serious complications and often long-term effects for both males and females. It is possible to get an STD without having sexual intercourse. The best way to protect yourself against STDs is to not engage in any sexual activity before marriage. You don’t have to get an STD. STDs can be prevented. Avoid all sexual activity if you are single or be faithful to one uninfected partner for life. This is the only way to avoid the risk of an infection.

If you think you may have an STD, it is important that you take action.

Don't let it go untreated.

  • Talk to your mom or dad, or another adult you trust
  • Talk to your school nurse
  • Call your family doctor or the Cabarrus Health Alliance (704-920-1000)
  • Decide to not have sex until you are in a loving, faithful, marriage.
HIV - Human Immunodeficiency Virus
The Breakdown
Individuals infected with an STD are two to five times more likely to acquire HIV than uninfected individuals. HIV can be contracted through sexual activity with an infected person or through dirty needles infected with drug use.
Word on the Street
The virus attacks your immune fighting cells (T4 cells). By damaging these cells, a person is less likely to ward off diseases and is less likely to maintain a constant state of health. The later stage of HIV is AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome). The AIDS stage occurs gradually and development can vary from individual to individual.
Street Name
The new epidemic, the deadly disease
Symptoms
Neither HIV nor AIDS has a characteristic set of symptoms to look for if you think you may be infected. Some people do not notice any symptoms until a few weeks, months or even years after being infected. However, some people report having flu-like symptoms, which may include headache, nausea, exhaustion, fever and swollen lymph nodes (found in your neck, armpits and groin) within three to six weeks.
Can it be Cured?
The truth is there is no known cure for HIV/AIDS. However, doctors and researchers are working on finding treatments, drugs and vaccines to help fight the virus.
PID - Pelvic Inflammatory Disease
The Breakdown
A general term that refers to the infection of the uterus (womb), fallopian tubes and other reproductive organs. It is a common and serious complication of some STDS including chlamydia and gonorrhea. The more sexual partners a girl has the more likely she is to contract PID.
Word on the Street
This disease affects women and is often a result of gonorrhea or chlamydia. It can lead to infertility, recurring infections and chronic pelvis pain. A prior appearance of PID increases the risk of another appearance because the reproductive organs may be damaged during the initial infection.
Street Name
PID
Symptoms
Vary from none to severe. Because of vague symptoms PID can go unrecognized by women. Most common symptoms include lower abdominal pain, fever, unusual vaginal discharge with foul odor, painful urination, irregular menstrual bleeding and painful intercourse.
Can it be Cured?
While PID can be treated and cured, it is important to realize that some effects, such as infertility, may become permanent.
BV - Bacterial Vaginosis
Pronunciation
vaj-in-oh-sis
The Breakdown
It is of the most common forms of vaginal infections. Many individuals who contract BV have no symptoms.
Word on the Street
This infection can cause a strong “fishy smell.”
Street Name
BV
Symptoms
Often, there are no symptoms. However, symptoms in women may include an unpleasant vaginal odor, a white or gray vaginal discharge, burning during urination, and itching around the outside of the vagina.
Can it be Cured?
If the infection is not treated, the bacteria may get up into the uterus or the fallopian tubes and cause more serious infections. Treating bacterial vagninosis lowers this risk. Treatment is especially important in pregnant women. BV can increase a woman's susceptibility to other STDs, such as chlamydia and gonorrhea.
Chlamydia
Pronunciation
kla-mid-ee-ah
The Breakdown
It is the most frequently reported STD in the U.S. It can be transmitted through any form of sexual intercourse including vaginal, anal and/or oral sex. The more sexual partners one may have the greater one’s risk of contracting this disease. Chlamydia may also appear in the throat after having oral sex with an infected person.
Word on the Street
If left untreated serious complications, like infertility and PID in females, may occur. Males are also at risk and may encounter infections and possibly sterility (the inability to father children.
Street Name
The Silent Disease
Symptoms
Often mild or undetected, which is why it is known as the silent disease. Females may encounter vaginal discharge or burning while urinating. When the infection progresses to the fallopian tube, females may experience abdominal pain, lower back pain, fever or nausea. Males may also experience a discharge from the penis or burning sensation while urinating.
Can it be Cured?
Chlamydia can be treated and cured through the use of antibiotics. However, if left untreated it can cause reoccurrences.
Genital Herpes
The Breakdown
One out of five adolescents and adults have had genital herpes. There are two types of herpes. Herpes simplex virus 1 (HSV-1) is oral herpes (usually cold sores) and Herpes simplex virus 2 (HSV-2) is genital herpes. HSV-2 is more common in girls than in guys.
Word on the Street
The disease causes small sores that can burst and cause pain, itching and burning. Tender ulcers (sores) can take up to four weeks to heal. Outbreaks may last a few weeks but can reoccur on a regularly. The virus may spread through contact of a sore or even an area where a sore may no longer visible. Genital herpes can also be transmitted if a person who has a cold sore performs oral sex.
Street Name
For HSV-1: Cold Sores and Fever Blisters.
Symptoms
Flu-like symptoms including fever and swollen glands.
Can it be Cured?
No, the infection stays in your body indefinitely and can be passed from mother to baby during delivery. However, there are medications that help shorten and prevent outbreaks.
Genital Human Papilloma Virus (HPV)
Pronunciation
human pa-pil-lo-ma virus
The Breakdown
There are over 100 types of HPV (a.k.a Human Papilloma Virus)in the world. There are 30 types that can be transmitted through sexual contact. Genital warts are soft, moist or flesh colored and appear on the outside or inside of the vagina. They may also appear on or around the penis and anus.
Word on the Street
It causes raised bumps or blisters on genitals and can stay in the body and spread to other people. It has been linked to several types of cancer, in particular cervical cancer.
Street Name
Genital Warts
Symptoms
Symptoms may be painless but uncomfortable because of their size or itching.
Can it be Cured?
No, once infested the virus stays there for life. However. the virus can be treated. Although treatments can get rid of the warts, none get rid of the virus. So, warts can often come back after treatment.
Trichomoniasis
Pronunciation
trick-oh-mon-eye-a-sis
The Breakdown
A common STD that affects both males and females. However, symptoms are most common in females. It is the most curable STD in young, sexually active women. The vagina is the most common site of infection which is caused by a parasite.
Word on the Street
The disease causes irritation while urinating and a yellow or green vaginal discharge in women.
Street Name
Trich
Symptoms
Males usually do not have symptoms but may experience irritation while urinating or a slight or mild discharge. Females may encounter a frothy, yellow-green vaginal discharge with a strong odor. It also causes irritation and itching of the vaginal area.
Can it be Cured?
The Trichomoniasis inflammation can increase a woman's susceptibility to the HIV infection, and increases the chance that an HIV-infected woman could pass HIV to her sex partner(s). Trichomoniasis can be treated and cured through medication.
Gonorrhea
Pronunciation
gone-or-ree-ah
The Breakdown
It’s caused by a bacterium that usually grows in warm, moist areas like the uterus (womb) and urethra (urine canal). It is also likely to grow in the throat, mouth and eyes. It is contracted through the penis, vagina, anus or mouth.
Word on the Street
More than 700,000 people get infected with gonorrhea each year. In the U.S. the highest reported rates of infection are among sexually active teenagers, young adults and African Americans.
Street Name
The whites, the drip, the race horse (because it’s always running), G.C. and the clap.
Symptoms
This STD causes a great deal of discomfort in both males and females. Symptoms may include painful burning sensation when urinating, white or yellow discharge, pelvic pain and/or swollen testicles.
Can it be Cured?
Successful treatment is becoming more difficult. But there are antibiotics that can help treat and cure the disease.
Syphilis
Pronunciation
sif-ah-lis
The Breakdown
Syphilis can be passed on to another person from direct contact with a syphilis sore. Sores are usually visible on the external genitals, vagina or rectum. They may also appear on the lips or mouth. It can be passed on through vaginal, anal or oral sex.
Word on the Street
It is often referred to as “the great imitator” because its symptoms are commonly confused with those of other STDs. Most people who transmit the disease do not know they are infected.
Street Name
Syph, Pox or Bad Blood
Symptoms
Large, hard sores, hair loss and rash can occur.
Can it be Cured?
If detected early enough it can be treated and cured. If left untreated it can lead to heart, brain and other organ damage and possibly death.
Hepatitis
Pronunciation
hep-ah-tie-tis
The Breakdown
There are 3 main types of hepatitis: Type A, B and C which may all be passed on through sexual intercourse. Some common symptoms for the three types may include yellow eyes and skin, and flu-like symptoms.
Word on the Street
It is the inflammation of the liver, which can be caused through many types of viruses that act differently. Type A is a common infection that can be contracted by eating or drinking contaminated food or water. Personal hygiene is important. Type B is very infectious. It can be spread by unprotected sex with someone who is infected, sharing contaminated needles or other drug-injecting equipment. It can also be spread if blood from an infected person enters the body of an uninfected person. Type C can be transmitted by having sex with someone who is infected and who has sores on their genitals that may bleed.
Street Name
The Dragon, Hep A, Hep B or Hep C
Symptoms
Short, mild flu-like illness, nausea and vomiting, diarrhea, loss of appetite, weight loss, itchy skin, yellow skin and eyes, and darker yellow urine.
Can it be Cured?
No. If it is left undtreated, possible consequences include miscarriage and liver problems. The virus may remain in the body for life. Most people with hepatitis B and C feel better after 2 to 3 months of rest, proper medical care and medication.
Who is Doing What?

91: The percentage of teens who think it's important to get a strong message that they should wait to have sex.

76: The percentage of teens who wish the media showed the consequences of sex more.

75: The percentage of teens who don't think it's embarrassing to admit to being a virgin.

60: The percentage of teens who wish they'd waited longer to have sex.

54: The percentage of high school teens who say they're still virgins.

50: The percentage of guys who've never considered what their lives would be like if they got a girl pregnant.

25: The percentage of people living with HIV in the United States...who don't know that they're infected.

Some Things to Keep in Mind About Waiting
  • Over half of all teens are not having sex, and of the half that are, most regret it and wish they had waited.
  • Unfortunately, the half who aren’t sexually active sometimes think they're the only ones because they've bought the #1 Sex Myth: everybody's doing it.
  • Moreover, some teens lie about having sex...when you think everybody's doing it - and you know you're not - lying can seem like the easiest option.
  • We also know from surveys that boys show significant respect—though often unspoken—for girls who resist pressure to have sex and remain virgins.
  • It's hard to believe, but most first time sexual relationships are romantic but short-lived. Eight out of ten first time teen sexual relationships last 6 months or less and one-fourth are one-time occurrences. Surprised?

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